MIA in 2016: An Update
I know, I’ve been missing in action on this blog. I have not really been in a mood to talk, kinda. But I will share my latest manicures with you, cause, they’re pretty great. This is going to be a long post to catch up, so get ready to dig in!
Read MoreManaging Blogger Expectations: Conversions vs. Impressions
If you’re reading this because you’re attending our session at Affiliate Summit West 2016, thank you! This is a companion resource list to go along with the panel “Managing Blogger Expectations: Conversions vs. Impressions” from ASW16.
Read MoreHappy Valentine’s Day 2015!
As you may have imagined, it’s been a hard 30 days or so for me. Losing Winston, then a whirlwind of a conference in Las Vegas for Affiliate Summit West 15, then getting the annual “Conference Crud” flu and passing it to my brother and husband, well… let’s just say my Christmas tree has turned into a Super Bowl Birthday Valentine’s Day tree.
Contest: Free Networking Plus Pass for Affiliate Summit West 2015!
My absolute favorite conference of all time is Affiliate Summit! I have the privilege of being a speaker once again at the upcoming Affiliate Summit West 2015 in Las Vegas January 18-20, 2015 with Christen Moynihan from Broke-Ass Bride! Our session, Maximizing the Benefits of An Affiliate/Manager Relationship, will be on Tuesday, January 20th at 2:00 PM! To celebrate this, my 16th Affiliate Summit (and my 7th time as a speaker), I’m giving away 3 Free Networking Plus Passes for Affiliate Summit West 2015!
Read MoreWhat I’m Bringing to BlogHer ’14
Are you going to BlogHer ’14? I am! This will be my first journey to a BlogHer conference. I’ve been to plenty of conferences in my career, but none that seems as, well, laid back as this one. When I found out that BlogHer is going to be in San Jose this year, I decided that it was a good opportunity to finally go since I’m an hour away in no traffic from San Jose. I’ll be pulling double-duty at the conference as I’ll be representing this here blog as well as my other blogs (Girl Scout Guide and Food Askew) and my day-job, Snow Consulting. I’m used to wearing many hats, so it should be a breeze!
Because my co-worker, Ginette, will be coming from Las Vegas, and I don’t care to commute, I’ll be staying with her at the Hilton San Jose, conveniently connected to the San Jose Convention Center. Of course, I have the advantage of being able to pack full size items in my bag, but generally speaking I still won’t. I keep a full set of small travel sized toiletries in my suitcase for travel, and I don’t really feel the need to tote a lot of stuff down when it’s not absolutely needed. Of course, I’m bringing the usual toiletries, clothing, etc. but these are some suggestions of things you might not have considered bringing.
Toiletries
- Julep Mint Condition Pedi Crème – My feet take a beating at conferences, so I like to have a good foot cream that soothes that ache to put on before bed.
- Julep Doublestep Foot Treatment and Friction Stick – I just got this in my July Julep Maven box and I love it. I have wide feet, so it’s awesome on the wider areas that rub the most and take the biggest beating when doing a lot of walking.
- Tea Tree Oil Foot Wipes
– For the same reason as the creme, I like having the wipes handy in case I need a quick foot refresh during the day when I run back to the room for something I inevitably forgot, but really need!
- Dry Shampoo – Always good to have for a quick hair refresh if there’s just no time for a full shower. I like the new Herbal Essences Naked Dry Shampoo.
Office Supplies
- Business Cards – this is non-negotiable! You’re going to meet a lot of fellow bloggers and brands. Networking is crucial and business cards are still a must-have item. I trust PsPrint, but by now you don’t have time for that. Even if you have to go to your nearest FedEx Office, Office Depot, or OfficeMax TODAY to have some made, DO IT. It’s totally worth the investment. If you’re on a super tight budget, buy the kind you can print yourself. They’re better than nothing and a missed opportunity.
- Tablet – I like my iPad because it fits into my stylishly huge purse and it’s easy for quick internet usage if there’s WiFi (I have a WiFi only model) and convenient to look up stuff as a speaker is talking and take notes.
- Notebook & Pens – Because some speakers speak WAY too fast to be able to get everything typed out on that screen keyboard! So I personally find it faster to write things down sometimes. Being Back to School, notebooks are super cheap right now at most stores. Personally, I’ve been using the same composition notebook since 2007 for all my conference notes!
- Nikon D5000 DSLR – Complete with extra batteries, different lenses, monopod, battery charger, filters, etc. Besides being an amateur photographer, it’s always easier to use your own pictures in a blog post instead of trying to get permission to use someone else’s!
- Smart Phone & Extra Juice – My iPhone 4S still works just fine, but in some low-coverage areas the battery can go to hell. So I have one of those USB battery backup chargers AND an external battery charging case, just to be sure.
- Laptop – with cord, mouse, etc. It won’t leave my room, most likely, but I’ll need it for evening work so I don’t get too far behind.
Clothes
- Comfortable Shoes – I love the few different pairs I have of SKECHERS Women’s Work Shoes.
- Cardigan or light sweater – Sometimes conference centers are colder than you’d think.
- An extra of nearly everything – You never know when a glass of wine might get spilled on you and you’ll wish you had another shirt to go change into! It’s worth the room in a suitcase, TRUST ME!
- A Geeky Shirt – This is really only if you’re attending the little geek meet up spearheaded by Williesha Morris (see Facebook group thread). Personally, I can’t decide which fandom to represent. At least I have options. Need one? Try ThinkGeek!
Miscellaneous
- Granola or cereal bars – I always WANT to make it to the provided breakfasts, but sometimes I’m just running too late and I’d rather have a snack with me than have to wait until lunch. Plus, I’m a rather picky eater, so I don’t always like the food that is provided.
- Gum and/or mints – Because no one wants to talk to someone with gross breath. You can never have too many either.
- The nail polish you’re currently wearing – I’ll be wearing some custom Minx wraps, but I always bring my current color of nail polish with me when I travel. I’ve tried several at-home gels and even they are unreliable, so I’m always prepared if my polish chips and I have to do a quick touch up. If you’ve got an elaborate design, I’d stick with whatever color is the base or closest to the tips as that’s the most likely area that might need a touch up while you’re at BlogHer. Don’t forget to keep the polish in a sandwich bag – the bottle is glass and can break, and you’d rather in the unlikely event of a breakage to have the disaster contained, right?
Like I said before, everything else is pretty run-of-the-mill in terms of travel essentials. I used to bring my own water bottle, but I found there was ample water around the conference centers to keep me hydrated. This is the first time I’m going to BlogHer, so I’m glad that I’ll be driving and can easily run to a store to get anything I might forget or, worse case scenario, drive the 60-90 minutes back home if there’s something irreplaceable I forgot at home!
What’s on your packing list for BlogHer ’14?
Read MoreThe Story of My Stolen Purse in Las Vegas
I can now cross “having my purse stolen in Las Vegas” off my life experiences check list. Here’s how it went down.
While in Las Vegas for the fabulous Affiliate Summit West 2013, on Monday evening I took some time away from parties and happy hours to have dinner with my friend & former boss Connie and afterwards we went off in pursuit of the golden slot machine that would pay for our trips. After some trial & error, we found ourselves in the Forum Casino area of Caesars Palace. Connie had settled in on an older vintage machine whereas I wanted the newer machines with all the video game-like bonuses, so I told her where I was going & wandered off to a neighboring bank of penny slots. After awhile, I decided I was done with that machine & wandered back. After a minute or two playing some 25¢ slots behind her, I told Connie I was going to go to another bank of slots across the way.
After making my way around a kiosk of machines to find which one “spoke to me”, I went to insert my players card and voucher. That’s when I realized… WHERE IS MY PURSE?!?!
I jogged back to Connie, hoping I’d just set it down in the chair next to her. No such luck. She hadn’t seen my purse, but of course, hadn’t really been paying attention. I look behind her where I’d been sitting, no purse. Jogged over to the other bank of slots, NO PURSE! I looked beside the machines, in the old coin areas that are merely decorative now, and under all the chairs. WHERE IS MY PURSE?!
I’m glad I was with Connie, because she had the presence of mind to tell me to go tell a security guard that I’d lost my purse. I’m not sure I’d have thought of that in my panic.
The security guard radios it in and I take him to where I last saw my purse, the first machine with the bonuses. He asked how long ago was it, and was I SURE that’s where I last left it.
It’s a good thing I have a photographic and sensory memory. I told him it was less than 5 minutes because the last time I had my purse I remember vividly pulling a cough drop out & putting it in my mouth. The cough drop is still in my mouth & not even halfway gone. See? There’s the wrapper sitting in the ashtray next to the machine. I could still taste the lip butter I’d put on from inside my purse and, of course, the last thing I remember was tilting my phone out to see that it was just before 11 o’clock. So yeah, I’m sure.
I tell him the general description of my purse (again, very vivid since it was a Christmas present) and he makes some calls. He points himself towards a specific camera in the ceiling and waves, which is when I start to remember the MANY shows I’ve seen on cable about how well oiled a machine the surveillance system at Las Vegas casinos are. We wait awhile, the security guard explaining that they’re putting a rush on looking at the tapes and if a cleaning person or server picked it up, it’ll take 10-20 minutes for them to get back to their stations to report the found object.

My LuLu Rouched Clutch
After waiting a few minutes with Connie for someone to turn it in, crying a bit because I can’t believe what an idiot I am to lose my purse, the guard decides that it’s been enough time waiting to hear someone turned it in that he’s going to go ahead and take me to the security booth to fill out an official incident report so they can “continue their investigation”. Connie assures me that she’ll wait right there for me, and I head off.
Of course, after I fill out the incident report, my current boss Roger, his friend, and my co-worker Randy come wandering by. Randy, being the consummate joker, asks if I’m in trouble of course. I tell them that I lost my purse & Roger says to text him when I get my phone back. Like Connie, they all tell me to think positive & that they’re sure it’ll turn up. Being a pessimist, I was seriously doubting that.
The guard tells me he has to get back, but another person on their team, a woman, was going to come talk to me. I chat with the guard stationed at the booth – super nice guy that actually used to live in the Bay Area. We talk about housing prices and whatnot, and it really helps to distract me from the horror show that my night has turned into. I finally see this woman who fit the first guard’s description walking towards us, when all of a sudden she stops short, listening to her radio on her shoulder. She turns back around and walks towards the Forum Casino, where we’d just come from.
A minute later, the guard in the booth listens intently on his shoulder radio and says, “They think they got the guy”.
“So it was stolen after all?” I ask. He nods. At least I didn’t lose it, I think, but I still have no clue how someone got my purse away from me considering it was more of a clutch with a wrist strap that I had on the whole time (or so I thought). Another moment goes by and he listens in then says “Oh, they think it was a woman”.
That bitch! I think… then the guard asks if I’d like to press charges. Now I’m conflicted, because I do want to, but I don’t know if I’ll be able to go to the last day of the conference, if I’ll have to stay in town longer, or if I’ll have to come back at some point. So I ask what pressing charges would entail. When he tells me that it would just be 45-60 more minutes of my time to fill out extra paperwork, I
quickly agree to press charges. He said it best when he explained that he’s glad I’m pressing charges – most people are on vacation & don’t want to be hassled with it as long as they get their stuff back, but if I don’t press charges then they just have to let the perp go, and then they’re going to do it to someone else.
Yeah, I said perp. I watch a lot of Law & Order.

We chat some more, about a case they had where a man picked up some woman’s $50,000 bracelet that she’d dropped in the casino & went to jail for 5 years, essentially for not turning it in to Lost & Found since he didn’t actively rob her, and soon enough a manager type guy (suit & earwig, no uniform) comes walking our way with my little silver purse in hand.
YAY! I clap for him to signal I can tell it’s my purse! He comes over and asks me to verify that everything is in my purse, and it is. Including more cash than I actually thought I’d had. I ask about the paperwork and he says it’s not necessary, and that I should enjoy the rest of my night and that they’re sorry for my ordeal. All told, it was about an hour between reporting my purse missing to the security guard and the manager bringing it back & sending me along on my way.
I never did meet the person who stole it. I never did see the tape or learn how exactly she got my purse away from me. I’m assuming that the video evidence was clear enough that they didn’t need any additional paperwork from me. They have all my contact information on my incident report, so if they need me, I assume they’ll call.
I was happy to find Connie sitting right where I’d left her, and flashed her my (tightly clutched) purse as I made my way back to her. We ended our night with some celebratory over-priced drinks with some folks we knew already holding court in the Galleria bar & then I was back up to my room! I te
ll ya… next time it’s over-the-shoulder purses for me that I can keep a better eye on!
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